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WHAT TO COUNT ON WHEN YOU CAN'T COUNT ON ANYONE?



OUR LOVED ONES :



Life is unpredictable. It’s a sea full of emotions and situations. We all have some people who are so close to our heart. When something happy happens, those people’s face comes into our mind. Sharing such things with them magnifies the happy things. Similarly, when we go through something bad, we suddenly want them with us to comfort and console us and to be there for us. Though most of the times, those people won’t be able to give a solution, their presence alone would make us feel better. It would give us some unknown strength to bear hard things

Also, when something makes us angry, we complain about it to our loved ones and they would join with us in complaining and then later help us see the reason behind and make us understand and handle it better. Those people are our lifesavers, yes.


WHEN WE GET TO LIVE OUR NIGHTMARES :




But the hardest uncomfortable bitter thing is ( I can keep adding more adjectives :P but let me stop with it) not always we can count on our loved ones. Well, maybe very few could be lucky enough to have their loved ones during all hard times but in most cases, we can’t count on them always. It's going to hurt badly when we get to feel them not being around when we need them the most. That pain can be more than the problem itself sometimes.


Maybe, they could get far away from us that they cannot reach us, or maybe they might leave us later for some reasons, or maybe we might get into a situation we feel it's the best to leave them and hence we leave them. It could be anything and at those hard times when they are not there with us, what will one do?


How can we even face it?



We just can’t say to our hard times to go away because we have got none with us to handle it. Life doesn’t work that way. Some battles, be it emotional battle or mental battle or physical battle, we got to face it alone when needed to.


And those battles which we fight alone will be the hardest usually. It might seem impossible and more painful too, but those will give us strength and wisdom that no other battles could ever provide. Those lone battles, in the beginning, could make us hopeless. It could even make us get angry at our loved ones for making us go through them alone without them. At times might make us hate everyone and everything in the world and get us to see ourselves as victims or damaged ones.


LET'S NOT GIVE IN, LET'S NOT SURRENDER :



It’s all usual but lets never get into seeing ourselves as victims. Because having that mindset and thinking means we have no control over anything in our lives and that our lives are that’s all over.



But certainly, that is not it. Many problems might come and go. And yes when they come, at times, we might feel like it’s the end, with no hope left for us but one day those problems and hard times will fade away. Then when we look back we might not even remember everything about those hard times. We would be proud of ourselves one day. We would be able to see all positives qualities which we acquired and all negative qualities which we lost by fighting those battle alone.




WE GOT THIS!



Let's be there for us. We have all the powers that we need to fight any battles which come our way. Let's remember, only the hard things which we can bear and fight against will be given to us. when something bad happens repeatedly, let's not think "why everything is happening", "do we really deserve this "etc.




BETTER THINGS IN STORE FOR US :



It all comes to mould us into better people and who knows, we might be thinking that only our lives are the most bitter one but when we look around more, we might find someone else’s life more sad and bitter than ours.


In order to learn swimming, sometimes we have to struggle, drown a few times so that, in the end, we can learn swimming. Similarly, people may or may not be there to guide us during the hard times, but it is us who has to go through to grow through it. We have the power to overcome and learn and grow from it. So let's just trust in us and be persistent and patient during the hard times.


Conclusion:



If people are with us, it’s good. But when we are alone and we got to live all by ourselves, let's just have faith in ourselves. Since life is like a circle, nothing is permanent. Bad times just like how it comes, will eventually go away one day, so let's not worry. Let's remember that our happiness and peace are always one step away. Let's hold on and as we go through the hard times, and let's make sure we learn and grow.



Just like “After a storm comes a rainbow”, after every storm will come peace and happiness. WE ARE ALL WE NEED!



“Everything will be okay in the end. If it’s not okay, it’s not the end.”

- John Lennon MUSICIAN, FOUNDING MEMBER OF THE BEATLES.



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