WHAT TO COUNT ON WHEN YOU CAN'T COUNT ON ANYONE?

OUR LOVED ONES :

Life is unpredictable. It’s a sea full of emotions and situations. We all have some people who are so close to our heart. When something happy happens, those people’s face comes into our mind. Sharing such things with them magnifies the happy things. Similarly, when we go through something bad, we suddenly want them with us to comfort and console us and to be there for us. Though most of the times, those people won’t be able to give a solution, their presence alone would make us feel better. It would give us some unknown strength to bear hard things

Also, when something makes us angry, we complain about it to our loved ones and they would join with us in complaining and then later help us see the reason behind and make us understand and handle it better. Those people are our lifesavers, yes.

WHEN WE GET TO LIVE OUR NIGHTMARES :

But the hardest uncomfortable bitter thing is ( I can keep adding more adjectives :P but let me stop with it) not always we can count on our loved ones. Well, maybe very few could be lucky enough to have their loved ones during all hard times but in most cases, we can’t count on them always. It's going to hurt badly when we get to feel them not being around when we need them the most. That pain can be more than the problem itself sometimes.

Maybe, they could get far away from us that they cannot reach us, or maybe they might leave us later for some reasons, or maybe we might get into a situation we feel it's the best to leave them and hence we leave them. It could be anything and at those hard times when they are not there with us, what will one do?

How can we even face it?

We just can’t say to our hard times to go away because we have got none with us to handle it. Life doesn’t work that way. Some battles, be it emotional battle or mental battle or physical battle, we got to face it alone when needed to.

And those battles which we fight alone will be the hardest usually. It might seem impossible and more painful too, but those will give us strength and wisdom that no other battles could ever provide. Those lone battles, in the beginning, could make us hopeless. It could even make us get angry at our loved ones for making us go through them alone without them. At times might make us hate everyone and everything in the world and get us to see ourselves as victims or damaged ones.

LET'S NOT GIVE IN, LET'S NOT SURRENDER :