You sure would have gone through various issues and problems. You, by now, would have learnt what life is.
Despite knowing about what life is, and how it works, sometimes, when you look at your life, all that you can see is just a question mark.
Despite how hard you try to keep you happy and peaceful, something always comes in the way to ruin it. Ever been there in a state where, no matter from which angle you view your life, it seems like it's a complete mess? Ever felt that you don't have the strength to face anything anymore. All you want to do is to lock yourselves up in a room and not come out and sleep your time away. (when sleep seems like an escape) You have controlled yourselves enough, as much as possible, to get a hold of yourselves and lived till now, but suddenly you see yourselves too weak to even stand up.
I know, saying that "the hard times won't stay always and that brighter days will come " isn't going to comfort or make you feel better. You must have been sick of seeing Instagram posts with such lines in your newsfeeds or by hearing such consoling words from your well-wishers. You can't just remove this struggling phase nor wait for this phase to end.
So how exactly can one deal with this?
There are two choices:
1. One is to see everything from a dissatisfied perspective, and to keep cursing at your life and do nothing and let life pass you by. This choice is equal to destroying one's own life.
2. The other choice is to choose a cheer girl perspective with a slight difference.
Normally in a game, for example in a cricket match, the cheer girl cheers only when their team play well and if their team lose the match, all they can do is accept the defeat and move on. That is what they do.
But you cannot be like them. You have only one life so you have to keep cheering up, doesn't matter whether you feel like you are winning or losing.
When you feel you don't like your life, just don't accept it and sit. Find what gives you happiness, satisfaction. Find what changes your mood into a positive mood and do it regularly. If you are a person who forgets everything with earphones plugged in, then listen to music and you will feel yourselves in a better mood, where life won't seem as bad as it felt earlier.
TIPS :) (Might help you a little)
Remind yourselves that whatever you feel about your life isn't always correct.
When you find yourself thinking hopeless thoughts, say to yourself that it is just the current mood trying to manipulate you and is nowhere to your life.
Also, remember that you don’t have to have it all under control all the time.
Focus one day at a time. You need not have to fight and solve all your problems right away.
Distinguish between what's under and what's not under your control.
If it's not under your control, keep doing what you can do and let the time do the rest of the work.
Cling on to the hope that everything will be okay at the end if it is not, then it's not the end.
Don’t give up. You never know how close you are to your breakthrough and your blessing.
“Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.”–Oprah Winfrey.
"It is impossible to feel grateful and depressed at the same moment."–Naomi Williams
“If you want to turn your life around, try thankfulness. It will change your life mightily.”–Gerald Good
Don't be manipulated by what you see or feel. Choose hope. Choose cheerfulness over hopelessness. Choose to be positive and patient. Remind yourself that you are only one step away from being your best version and from receiving your rewards and blessings. You have come this far. Don't stop now. Just keep going.